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Alan & Jan’s Hospice Story

Rotherham Hospice Patient Stories

Alan’s journey with Rotherham Hospice began when his wife, Jan, was diagnosed with oesophageal cancer in early 2018. After a brief respite when she received the all-clear, the cancer sadly returned, gradually worsening over time. By December, Jan’s health had significantly declined, prompting a visit to Rotherham Hospice on 9th December. They initially believed it would be just a short stay for assessment.

Ten Precious Days

What they thought would be a brief visit became ten invaluable days. Reflecting on their time at the hospice, Alan recalls entering the serene Water Lily Room, overlooking peaceful fields. In that moment, he turned to Jan and said warmly, “Jan, it’s like the Ritz.”

Alan was profoundly moved by the exceptional compassion and kindness they experienced:

“I just couldn’t believe it because everyone—the receptionists, cleaners, nurses, doctors—everyone had a smile on their face. It was really nice.”

Jan passed away peacefully at the hospice on 19th December. For Alan, the care they received during this difficult period provided immense comfort and dignity, making a deeply painful experience more bearable.

Why Leaving a Gift in Your Will Matters

Alan knows first-hand the difference that Rotherham Hospice makes to families facing life’s toughest moments. He’s passionate about ensuring this vital support continues:

“I’ve already made a gift in my will… but I’m not going yet.”

Each year, Rotherham Hospice relies heavily on generous gifts left in wills to continue providing holistic, personalised, and compassionate care to individuals and families when they need it most. By choosing to leave a gift in your will, you become a part of our lasting legacy, directly supporting future generations.

Why should I leave a legacy gift?

A legacy gift is more than a donation, it is a deeply personal choice that captures your values, experiences and hopes for the future. Through your gift, you will be making a world of difference for our future patients and their families, reflecting your generosity and commitment to compassionate.

Supporting Rotherham Hospice through a legacy gift won’t impact your finances today but will make a lasting impact in the future.

Future patients and families will benefit from your kindness.

Every contribution helps provide outstanding end-of-life care.

Together, we can ensure that compassionate end-of-life care remains available for everyone in our community.